Favorite Songs of 2025 - Songs 23-33

We're back again with The List - who knows if successfully completed by year's end, but giving it the old college try. This year's List is somewhere between eclectic and confusing, as always, featuring some recent denizens, some new artists, some old favorites who have never made the list, and a few who may have actually made their way into the category of popular music. As always, anyone in the last group included in The List is purely accidental.

23.    Lou Reed Was My Babysitter by Jeff Tweedy.

"I wanna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake until my shoes untie

'Cause rock 'n' roll ain't ever gonna die

Not as long as you and I are alive.

'Cause rock 'n' roll is dead

But the dead don't die."

Exhibit A in the category of "old favorites who have never made The List." In fact, neither Tweedy nor his band Wilco ever have, although I've listened to them for years. I'm sure there are two people out there (to whom I am related) who can also relate to the song title. And bonus points for Tweedy doing a great Lou Reed impersonation. 

24.    Honkeytonk by Oldstar.

"I knew I’d make a fool of myself

If I walked on to your side of the band

So I packed up and left

Haunted by the thought of you in someone else’s arms."

Not a song of lost love, but instead love never realized. Oldstar are a NYC band playing "country rock from Florida for everyone" according to their Spotify bio. Seems about right. Couldn't find a video of just Honkeytonk, but the song begins at 9:09 in the video above. Or you can listen to two other of their songs beforehand as well.

25.     Down to be Wrong by HAIM.

"Down to be wrong, don't need to be right

I left you the keys, I left on the lights

I locked myself out of the house

I'm on the next flight, you can't talk me out of it, yeah."

A second appearance on The List for the Haim Sisters. This one's a break-up song, completely lacking in remorse.

26.    Ankles by Lucy Dacus.

"If it's the thought that counts

Let's think it through."

To be honest, I was a little disappointed by this latest effort "Forever Is a Feeling" from Lucy Dacus (my "teacher's pet" according to my friend Philbert). But I like this song a lot, and the above couplet is among my favorites of the entire year.

27.    Twist and Turn by Cardinals.

"Wrong and right

Ah all your life.

Get those wrongs and right them, baby

Learn to tell your lies."

Another fairly depressing song (sorry about that!), but this one from Irish band Cardinals, which along with the upbeat tempo somehow makes it easier to take. That and the seemingly cathartic ending where they seem on their way to redemption. 

28.    The Forks of Cypress by Patterson Hood and Waxahatchee.

"Wait until morning and I will meet you there

Even when it's storming there's sunlight in your hair

I'll bask in your splendor and your scent upon the air

Past the Forks of Cypress."

A Southern tale of forbidden love by Drive-by Truckers' Patterson Hood, made all the more haunting by Waxahatchee/Katie Crutchfield's backing vocals.

29.    Snowflakes by Dropkick.

"We complicate the words that we hear

Thinking that it wasn't clear."

Most of the British Isles are now covered, with this effort from Edinburgh-based Dropkick. Some power pop to relieve the depression of most of the above songs (Jeff Tweedy excepted).

30.    Inept Apollo by Nation of Language.

"How many miles ago?

A dream that fell

Lamented in the morning glow

Embraced and left alone

How many miles ago?"

Nation of Language is one of those bands (synth pop? semi-shoe gaze?) that I would have told you I would never like. And yet here they are, for the second year in a row, on The List. AI tells me that this song "explores themes of artistic self-doubt, imposter syndrome, finding solace in creative work amidst life's difficulties, and the struggle with love and loss." I will take our soon-to-be computer overlords' word for it. 

31.    Last Night I Held Your Hand by Somebody's Child.

"And I thought my youth was over

Now I'd die for you

Now I feel myself get older

But not when I'm with you."

Ireland strikes again on The List with Somebody's Child. A song about reflecting on lost youth (from 30-something front man Cian Godfrey ... spare me says this 60-something listener), or perhaps a Mrs. Robinson-esque relationship?  

32.    What's Fair by Blondshell.

"Maybe it was not the right time

Maybe it was not the right wine

Maybe it was in the water

Maybe God turned a blind eye."

Sounds as though Blondshell, a.k.a. Sabrina Teitelbaum is working through some issues with her mom. Language warning for this one, if that's still necessary these days ...

33.    Hard to Love by Dehd.

"Won't catch me goin' on about where the good men gone

Give me someone rough and tumble, someone hard to love."

Dehd's Emily Kempf seems to be looking for a bad boy. 

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 "And the countdown rolls on ..."

12.  The Steps by Haim.

"And if you go left

And I go right

Hey, maybe that's just life sometimes."

Not exactly Coldplay territory, but judging from the number of YouTube hits for this video, once again I may be veering dangerously close to mainstream territory by including this song on my list. Check out their song "Don't Wanna" (written with list fav Rostam) while you're at it.

13.  Phase by Pinegrove.

"That night when I lifted my head up

And I was seeing what was trembling there

On the edge of my restless eyelid

On the tip of horizon's lash

On the lip of collapsing letter

In the lap of confusing moon

I'm reduced to an estranged illusion

I'm consumed by all the shit in my room."

The fourth consecutive year on the list for the band from New Jersey (including my favorite song of 2017, and third favorite of all the 2010's, Old Friends). The above lyrics are among my favorites this year, which is not surprising given my admiration for Evan Stephens Hall's songwriting. I also recommend to you Dotted Line and pretty much everything else from Pinegrove's latest album, Marigold.

14.  Alter Ego by Kaleo.

"You feel the rush in your head

This is the time to attend

There's nothin' holdin' you back

Now, go ahead."

A dollop of The Black Keys, a dash of AC/DC and voila! rocking magic from ... Iceland? Yep, like last year's entry from Junius Meyvant, Kaleo hail from the Land of Fire and Ice. Mjog gott!

15.  A Thousand Words by Jay Som.

"Remember to call me when you're feeling blue

Don't follow the rules, go on and speak your truth

I've got you playing on my team

With the kind of people who sweep you off your feet

Writing a thousand words."

A bit of a rocker by Melina Mae Duterte's (aka Jay Som) standards, an artist who lives the cliche and makes music largely in her bedroom. I love the crescendo outro.

16.  Strangers by Mt. Joy.

"I guess I'll have to fall in love with strangers

Go ride through New York City like I'm famous

And I did not want our love to be erased, but

Lord knows we chased it, love just rearranged us."

So, is her really over her? I think not. Hearing echoes of The Lumineers in this song, who, according to Seth Myers in the video, they were touring (or supposed to be touring) with. You know, before the world ground to a halt.

17.  Circle the Drain by Soccer Mommy.

"It's a feeling that boils in my brain

I would dial back the flame

But I'm not sure I'm able

I'm wobbling out on the wire

And the lights could go out

With the break of a cable."

It was inevitable, wasn't it, that a song by Soccer Mommy (aka Sophia Regina Allison) would appear on the list sooner or later? Although I'm sure this song was written pre-COVID, it certainly describes what a lot of us have been going through at various times this year.

18.  Who's Gonna Love Me Now by Cold War Kids.

"All those times when I imagined

What'd be like to have my freedom

Not be so uptight, live my best life

Oh, what a fool, I was only dreamin'."

A little Kings of Leon, a little White Stripes, a little Black Keys. I like how the Cold Ware Kids roll.

19.  Automatic by Houses and Dawn Golden.

"Another bleached out, black hole

with nothing to lose

Another paywall, shopping mall

coming for you."

This marks the third straight year Houses has had a song on the list. I guess that officially qualifies me as a fan.

20.  Come On Out by The Airborne Toxic Event.

"Black lungs, headlights

Heading off to the city tonight, out the

Front door, turn right

I was alone, alright, alright, alright."

One of those songs that I think says more with its music and "mood" than its lyrics. Those voices! That lead guitar!

21.  Wrestling by Cartalk.

"Dance around what I want to say

Clear performance in my mind

Star at hands like a saving grace

Are they gonna catch me alright?"

Likely the most obscure song on this year's list, if YouTube hits are the measuring stick. Another retro-sounding, catchy tune that seemed in vogue this year.

22.  Beautiful Anyway by Judah & the Lion.

"That's what makes this life so wonderfully awesome

and horribly awful

Yet somehow it's beautiful anyway."

The boys are back with another life-affirming anthem that we all really need. The video's pretty darn fun too.

Stay tuned for the top 11 songs!